We live in a culture where the best of everything is at our fingertips: food, clothes, technology, you name it—so naturally why wouldn’t we apply this mentality to relationships? The problem is that spending your time looking for the right one could lead to disappointment. Think about it: How many people do you need to [...]
Have you ever wondered why change is so hard? Why do we struggle to close the gap between where we are and where we want to be? Let’s say you want to lose weight. Your thought process may look something like this: I need to lose thirty pounds. Oh no, summer is coming soon. That [...]
What are the chances? With St. Patrick’s Day approaching, I’ve been thinking more about luck: are some people luckier than others? Do we make our own luck? Is there any science behind it? When I think about lucky people, this story always comes to mind. A friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend, who [...]
When it comes to relationships, there is by far no greater tragedy than dating the same person for years and staying in the wrong relationship. We all know the reasons why we do it. The safety, security, fear of loneliness, starting over, and so on. But here’s the thing: Nothing is 100% safe or secure. [...]
I’ve always wondered what it would feel like to go an entire day without worrying. Is that even possible? As a naturally anxious person, I can’t even imagine feeling so carefree that nothing bothered me. And I’m a writer, a profession known for inviting judgment, so you can imagine how the wheels in my head [...]
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to share a dream with someone or jump into someone else’s dream? I think about this when I’m lying awake at night wondering if I’m the only crazy person who has dreams that play out like a Nightmare on Elm Street movie. I’d love the option [...]
Why do you get nervous before an interview? When you see someone attractive, why don’t you talk to him/her? Pressure. Pressure is what prevents us from really enjoying life and doing what’s necessary to get the results we want. We feel pressure because of expectations – expectations we’ve built up in our minds, expectations that [...]
