Tag: Dating
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Saying Goodbye to ‘I’m Not Good Enough’
I’ve been a perfectionist for as long as I can remember—always caring about what other people think, worrying about being judged, and overanalyzing everything. As a kid, I never raised my hand in class even if I was 99% sure I knew the answer, constantly second-guessing myself. In my success-driven mind, every bad score on a…
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Having Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations
Love fuels our dreams. Love is hope. Love is what we live for. And when you’re swept up in it, anything seems possible. This is the message conveyed in the majority of romance novels and romantic comedies. According to the media, love is dramatic and all consuming. When it’s not a fairytale — candlelit dinners, champagne,…
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Is He The One? Why The Search Shouldn’t Be Easy
I’d love to meet the person who came up with the concept of the one because, let’s be honest, there can’t be just one person out there who is the be a perfect match for us. If that were true, then what happens to the people who have been married for 5, 10 or 20 years, and…
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How To Let Go of Someone You Love
My last breakup lasted three months. We both knew it had to end, but our intense attraction made it nearly impossible to cut ties completely. Each time we got together, I told myself it would be the last time… except it never was. This cycle repeated until I hit my breaking point. The emotional high I felt…
Maybe It's Just Me 