We live in a culture where the best of everything is at our fingertips: food, clothes, technology, you name it—so naturally why wouldn’t we apply this mentality to relationships? The problem is that spending your time looking for the right one could lead to disappointment. Think about it: How many people do you need to [...]
Are You Staying in the Wrong Relationship?
When it comes to relationships, there is by far no greater tragedy than dating the same person for years and staying in the wrong relationship. We all know the reasons why we do it. The safety, security, fear of loneliness, starting over, and so on. But here’s the thing: Nothing is 100% safe or secure. [...]
How to Avoid the Validation Trap
Why do you get nervous before an interview? When you see someone attractive, why don’t you talk to him/her? Pressure. Pressure is what prevents us from really enjoying life and doing what’s necessary to get the results we want. We feel pressure because of expectations – expectations we’ve built up in our minds, expectations that [...]