Saying Goodbye to ‘I’m Not Good Enough’

Saying Goodbye to ‘I’m Not Good Enough’

I’ve been a perfectionist for as long as I can remember—always caring about what other people think, worrying about being judged, and overanalyzing everything. As a kid, I never raised my hand in class even if I was 99% sure I knew the answer, constantly second-guessing myself. In my success-driven mind, every bad score on a [...]

Having Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations

Having Standards vs. Unrealistic Expectations

Love fuels our dreams. Love is hope. Love is what we live for. And when you’re swept up in it, anything seems possible. This is the message conveyed in the majority of romance novels and romantic comedies. According to the media, love is dramatic and all consuming. When it’s not a fairytale — candlelit dinners, champagne, [...]